Popular Nigerian food content creator Ify's Kitchen has opened up about her personal journey through nine years of infertility, shedding light on the emotional challenges and societal pressures she faced during that time.
She explained, "It wasn't the best at all and one thing that really messes with you during the waiting period is you have no idea. It's a different thing if someone
comes to you to tell you that you'd give birth after seven or eight years but you have no clue."Initially, Ify and her husband had planned to take their first year of
marriage easy, without focusing on starting a family. However, by the second
year, they found themselves questioning what was happening.
"My husband and I planned
to just chill for the first year and not try for kids but by the second year we
were like, 'Wait a minute, isn't it supposed to be very easy?'" she
added.
She recalled how, over time, their worry intensified and the wait took a
toll on her mental and emotional health; she even believed that God hated her.
"It was very difficult, second-year
people were like it'd happen but by the third year, I didn't know what was
happening. It was really really hard and then you'd see people talking about
women giving birth after 20 years," said Ify.
She concluded, "I remember seeing a
comment somewhere that read, 'Those of you who give birth easily don't know
what God has done for you, God loves you.' I was like, 'God really hates me,'
and it wasn't directed at me, I wept at work that day and asked God what I had
done and why he doesn't love me."
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